It’s often not the dream that isn’t meant to be; it’s usually the attachment to form or process that trips us up. When we’re putting our effort into “making something happen” in a certain way, we miss the many ways that might get us where we want to go more easily. Our addiction to certainty kills our creativity.
Read MoreYou know how people are always referring to the “comfort zone?” Well, here’s the border. And when you know where the border or boundary is, you can start to explore how best to expand it.
Read MoreYou may have heard that when emotions run high, intelligence runs low, but most of us come to a decision point when we’re highly emotional. We make a declaration to change and we walk forward with commitment and enthusiasm that disappears in a flash once we realize what we’ve done. This is an expected part of the change process, but it may explain why you haven’t stuck with “it.”
Read MoreIn striving for stability, I tamed the wild right out of myself, and with it went desire, passion, excitement, and joy. Stalking stability killed the thriving star, the alive parts of me.
Read MoreAnd please, don’t listen to the people who act as if you’ve done something wrong for getting hooked by a con artist. You didn’t do anything other than get bamboozled by a crook. It happens. We’ve all been taken for a ride in various contexts. This one happens to be yours. And there IS a way through the pain, the terror, the guilt, and the shame. You will return to love.
Read MoreIt was then that I realized I wasn’t going to bash my doubt into behaving, and it also wasn’t going away any time soon. But it was causing me a great deal of limitation, and I was definitely over it.
Read MoreBut wanting more - to be deeply fulfilled and satisfied - doesn’t seem like such a crime to me.
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