Relationship Hell to Relationship Health

Relationship Hell to Relationship Health

After accepting that I was the common denominator in my heart’s chaos, I got real about doing my inner work. I mastered the art of being single and loving it…but there’s little risk required in staying single. Vulnerability is optional, and self-regulation is a cinch when you live with yourself. It was time for me to learn how to be in a healthy relationship.

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Hiccups on the Healing Journey

Hiccups on the Healing Journey

You may have heard that when emotions run high, intelligence runs low, but most of us come to a decision point when we’re highly emotional. We make a declaration to change and we walk forward with commitment and enthusiasm that disappears in a flash once we realize what we’ve done. This is an expected part of the change process, but it may explain why you haven’t stuck with “it.”

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Self Care for Emotional Trauma

Self Care for Emotional Trauma

Typically when you’re on the edge of expansion, conflict occurs because opening to life is in direct opposition to the unconscious strategies you’ve employed to keep you safe. Growth requires confronting our limits, but confronting our limits feels incredibly threatening. If symptoms have been dormant, like anxiety, night sweats, irritability, lack of focus/concentration, digestion issues, etc., they start coming back just when you start moving forward.

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